unhappy with bid house

Hey guys. So I got a bid from a house I didn’t really like too much (as I’m sure other PNMs have posted about). I don’t want to name names but I guess I don’t really... fit in with their history or traditions, etc. I know why I didn’t get into my top houses and it’s something I can redo. But since I already got a bid, I know I can’t drop and informal rush this year. Problem is, I’m a sophomore now, and rushing as a junior seems almost unheard of. I guess I’m wondering if it’s better to be in a low tier house you don’t really like or to not be in a house at all? Thanks.