pnms beware (rush advice)

since rush is starting soon I wanted to warn pnms about dirty rushing. Obviously aphi dirty rushes but I don’t think people realize how bad it is so I wanted to warn the pnms to not get their hopes up. I got dirty rushed in October of last year and got asked to hangout and get Starbucks with a girl in aphi she reached out to me in my dms and I had a great time, when I went through rush I of course got them back for video round, and philo and then when sisterhood came they took me upstairs to talk one on one and gave me a letter talking about how I was a standout pnm and they were excited to see me next round, and then I got dropped. Before rush started they also would comment on my instagram posts as well. For any pnm who got reached out to, and thinks they’re set, be careful, there are some amazing sweet girls in alpha phi but, this process and the way they reach out to girls is awful and, they just do it to keep themselves as the top picks. Since girls assume if they rank them high they’ll get them back. Just be careful when you get reached out to and try not to get your hopes up if you’re a girl.