i have a dilemma

My mom iis an adpi At Uf. I have two older sisters. One is an active member of ZTa and my oldest sister was im Tri delta. I rush this fall and preffed at Zta and a great middle tier house . I did not get invited back to Adpi after sisterhood and Tri delt after round one. I got. Bid from ZTA. I dropped them before I was initiated. I just did not feel I fit in. I am more studious and do not party much. I want to rush again in the fall. My sister is so embarrassed on what I did at ZTA. ZTA is a wonderful house but it is just just not for me. I really want a bid to Adpi. . My mother has reached out to the rush chair again and put in a good word for me. My mistake was taking the bid from ZETA. Do I have a chance at all? What do you think? This is a serious question.