low tier or no tier at all?

Every year it is the same whiny post. I think I am better than XYZ. Should I drop and re-rush next year? Well....honey here is a news flash for you, if you were all that you would have gotten into that top tier house you so desired. But guess what, they didn't extend you an invitation to join. How about being excited for one minute that you got a bid from anybody! Go meet your pledge class and your sisters. Get off this stupid website and immerse yourself in your new sorority. But most importantly, quite whiny when so many pnms, who were completely released from rush would love to be in your spot tonight.

Not sure why you have to be so mean Sweet Jesus? These girls r looking for a home, a place to feel like they belong. Some compassion would b nice. If, it certainly is a blow to feel like u r somewhere u don't belong but u will get over it and move on. Give your new house a chance. At least for tonight and see how u feel tomorrow. Remember they can still not accept u so b sure to give it ur best and have an open mind. These rankings are all a joke but the girls who wanted u r the real deal. They r open to getting to know u and this just might b the best texoerience ever of ur entire 4 years at school.

Just say no. Walk away. No way I would take a bid from Sk? Phi mu, gamma, Axo. No wau

I see beautiful girls in all the sororities.

If you go by the pictures.

Now the attitudes as expressed here are another story...

Rush next year and you will be a year older and less desirable since the sororities know you will be that much closer to graduation. Top houses have their pledge class mostly identified well before rush begins. Take your bid and enjoy yourself now, next year is a long ways off.

And start slumming with Axo, Sk, phi mu Gamma. You will have socials w/ lambda xi, du, sigma nu. Lord hell me if I ever did that. Thank God I got a middle tier house. Amen. Thank you Jesus

Take it with the attitude that you will stay and become a super pledge! Influence others in your pc to be top tier material like you! If you take it thinking you will drop, u will not fully connect and then you won't have fun for sure. You will be less desireable next year AND will lose this opportunity! Go find others like u - they are there.

. I am here to say how lucky it is for me to have found a house as lovely as I have. They actually found me, since all of the other houses dropped me! I feel like a good fit, and I didn't have the power to decide. All and all, I met the girls and they're incredibly nice! I am so happy with how things turned out.

On the other hand, many girls feel like theyve been given a poor hand. They claim they "don't fit in" and I find that hard to believe. In my eyes, I see it more as they believe they're too good for that sorority. You wanted to be in Greek life, and you wanted friends. Funny how I only see pnms with lower tiers on their list complain. If you ask me, they lack the empathy to get to know the girls in the sorority that chose them, and saw them as a good fit. I assure you, you are a good fit! Try it out, and don't be like my friend who rushed, got a low mid tier sorority, and drop because she wanted higher tier, only to receive another bid from the same sorority. Be thankful!💕 There are nice girls everywhere!!!

GET OUT WHILE YOU CAN. RERUSH. I DID . THIS HAPPENED TO ME LAST YEAR. I GET A BID FROM A TOP TIER HOUSE YESTERDAY.... RUN HONEY, RUN. YOU DO NOT WANT TO BE IN THE BOTTOM TIER. TRUST ME. YOU WILL HATE IT.

go where you are comfortable. your worth is no different than the girls in the top houses. every house has redeeming qualities. you are not even guaranteed a "better" house next year.

do not let these negative unhappy people tell you otherwise. once you find out you love a house, you won't even think twice about being in a "bottom". girls in the bottom houses take boys form every fraternities on date functions, have best friends in chapters all across the tiers, and have no different experience than any other girl other than having to ignore the hate they get for being low.