pre rush warning

Getting dropped from chapters you don't like has ABSOLUTELY NO EFFECT on whether you return to the chapters you do like. You have to be ranked high enough by a sorority to make their assigned cutoff number and that is determined by that sorority alone, not where you rank with other sororities, not how high or low you rank any of them.

Damn, if you can't be polite for 20 minutes at a rush party and converse like a decent person with actives who are actually interested in you enough to invite you back, then no sorority wants you. You dont' belong. There's no telling what you would do to embarrass a sorority if you were a member to make a bad rep for them; no one wants to put their letters on that.