How hard is it to just be nice?

Does anyone who casually ranks these houses understand how hurtful it is to some of these students to see these rankings? See their house, which they love, called bottom tier...irrelevant....losers....take your pick on the insult.

Maybe you dont realize this, but there are real people in these houses. Students, who you all go to school with, working as hard as they can to improve their house. They are recruiting hard, hoping and praying that some of these pnms pick their house. They get their hopes up, they put effort and emotion and hard work into it.

Meanwhile you guys do all you can to make them look bad. It is a big joke to you. Just take some time to consider that maybe these rankings, and the insults, and the social tiering, is just brutal for some of these students to see.

And the pnms see this crap. They may love some of the girls they connect with during rush, but are scared to pledge a house because they see how they are treated on here.

Is it so hard to just talk about what you like. You want to call a house top tier, great. Talk plenty about who you think is best. But is there really any need to grind the other houses into the mud? Just give these houses a chance to build and grow. Please.