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Here's a pro tip coming from a top tier fraternity. If you have to pretend to be someone you're not at a house or with any sorority round, then it's not the right fit for you. If you feel the need to dress differently to see a certain fraternity, its not the right fit for you and thats ok! You're making a decision that is going to effect the next three and a half (or more) years of your life. Make the right one. Go where a you are most comfortable and most you. Do it because I didn't. Good luck and trust the system. You'll find your perfect fit.