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by: C

Why are there so few mixers now? My freshman year, sororities had mixers with different fraternities every week. Why is there so much pressure to mix with the same few fraternities over and over again? I understand sororities want to be top tier, but most of the fraternities just agree to mix with anyone who asks. Mixers aren't an indication of status, so why act like your sorority is exclusively associated with a few fraternities when everyone knows it isn't true?

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#1  by: Why   
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All of the sororities here think they're top tier with the exception of a couple, so they all want to mix with only the top tier. It's really stupid and it's getting worse every year. We're literally up to like 3/4 of the fraternities having 0 or 1 mixer per year. I wish that was an exaggeration, but it literally isn't

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#2  by: H   
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At most other schools, everyone just mixes with everyone. It’s not a big deal. If you don’t want to mix with them, you just don’t show up, but at least it gives people the opportunity to meet everyone and get an impression of each Greek organization every year. I wish it was like that here, but as long as everyone is so immature and self absorbed it’s going to continue to get worse

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#3  by: Cu   
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It’s nice to see someone have a discussion on here instead of posting fake rankings or putting people down. I’m a senior and rarely check this website, but I really don’t understand why a lot of the top sororities have mixed with as little as 4 fraternities since I’ve been here (at least of the ones left on campus). Are there really only 4 fraternities good enough for you? Do you think it’s beneficial to your own social lives for every sorority to mix with the same 300 guys (most of which only show up to mixers with the actual top tier sororities). Every fraternity and sorority is now 100% different people than when I first came here 3 years ago. How would you even know if you like the guys in the (roughly 16/23 fraternities) that no one mixes with

By: Cu
#4  by: Go tigers   
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Tbt to spring 2016 when almost all of the top fraternities got kicked off or suspended and every top and middle sorority just converted their mixers to crush parties or canceled instead of asking the other fraternities. I love this school

By: Go tigers
#5  by: Uh-huh   
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The fraternities brought a lot of this upon themselves. To complain that sororities only ask the top three or four fraternities to mix is no different than fraternities only wanting to mix with the top four or so sororities. You don't see any fraternities beating down the door to mix with any of the "lower tier" sororities.

It's also all the fraternities bashing each other here all the time that reflects badly on each other.

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by: Yeah butSep 20, 2017 12:43:40 PM

The top four fraternities are mixing with the top almost all of the sororities

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#6  by: Yeah   
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Sororities feel that theyll be viewed negatively if they mix with anyone other than the top. Even if the girls in the middle or top sororities want to mix with someone new, the idea gets shut down if they ask

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#7  by: Bump   
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Bump for the comments

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by: BumpSep 21, 2017 9:26:46 PM

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#8  by: Yes   
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Does anyone know who is mixing with who

By: Yes
by: yoloSep 25, 2017 8:28:02 AM

ADPi, Kappa, Tri Delt - ATO, SN, KA

XO, ZTA, AXO, APhi - KS, Phi Delt, SX, Beta

KD, DZ, SK - AGR, Lambda

not sure about the rest.

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by: LolSep 26, 2017 3:12:34 PM

I wish no one had asked. You just made those up. KD and aphi will have like 95 mixers with the top fraternities to try and prove they are top tier. Kkg ddd and adpi will have 1 or 2 each with agr KA sn ATO. Xo and axo will mix with beta and ks once a month. Phi delt and lambda will probably get a couple. Then delta chi, dtd, pi kapp, alpha sig, phi sig, and Fiji will maybe have 1 each. Then the other 8 fraternities will mix with theta

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#9  by: .   
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FSL made a new rule
that you can only have one event every two weeks that's why there are so few mixers bc that includes functions and mixers

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by: ^Sep 26, 2017 3:00:11 PM

Can anyone confirm this rule is real? Why would FSL want to lower the already low number there is? 3 or 4 years ago there were like 2 or 3 mixers or crush parties going on every Tuesday and Wednesday night. Less mixers makes our Greek life way more exclusive and snobby than it should be. People are judging entire organizations off of crap on this website or by one person they’ve met, and the lack of mixers is a lot of the problem

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