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This is going to sound silly right now, but try flipping a coin. If you're disappointed with the result, or realize mid-flip what your heart really wants, then you'll know. Also, to get on my soapbox: why don't you feel comfortable talking to your rho chi? They're supposed to be there to help you make decisions like these and talk through these feelings. If she's good at her job, she should give you some unbiased advice that will be more personal and relevant to you and your situation than any anonymous random person. If you don't feel comfortable talking to her, I'd highly recommend you talk to a different rho chi about your choices, maybe leaving the names off if you really feel like they might judge you. However, keep in mind that 90% of rho chis won't judge your options or report back to their houses about your feelings, and if you feel like your rho chi will be a negative voice for you in this process, you should talk to panx about her.