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Well, I think it's important to note that "trust the process" isn't necessarily the same thing as "be happy with what you got." People raise good claims when they say "you should be lucky you got a bid at all" because quite frankly rush here is competitive and cut throat. There are only so many spots in all the houses. HOWEVER what people are trying to get at when they say "trust the system" is that PNMs should have faith that they'll end up where they're supposed to be and adopt a sort of "everything happens for a reason" mantra. As a PNM, you can only do so much to appeal to certain houses and if they choose not to follow through with you then a PNM shouldn't obsess over it because as one door closes another one opens. I hope this makes sense. While I do think the OP had good intentions with her post I think that all PNMs should still be open minded to trying different houses. Just because you didn't like a house from the initial 10 minute conversation you had with 1 or 2 actives doesn't mean you should entirely write it off.