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Yeah I think it's just something the Rho Chis are told to say to calm PNMs, and it's what they were told when they went through recruitment. I think the idea is that if a house doesn't want you, why would you want them? Sure that's a logical way to see it but let's be real, it doesn't make it any less hurtful or confusing when a house you felt great in drops you. Another BS term that they should really stop using is "mutual selection process". It's not a mutual selection unless literally every single house wants you and you have your choice of which ones you want to go back to. But it's SO rare that you get a full card of only your top houses. I've personally never seen it happen. It's not mutual at all for most girls, it's the sororities choosing you and hoping you'll also choose them or that another house you wanted drops you and their sorority bumps up.