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Honestly, when I joined a sorority I really thought it was going to be like how it is in the movies - everyone knows your name, everyone says hi to each other in the quad, and everyone is connected. But now after two years, I see that it's not like that at all... At the end of the day everyone has their own lives. Some girls are super attached to their sorority so they just throw themselves into whatever and get to know everyone personally. However, most girls aren't like that. Most sorority girls are just doing what their sorority requires of them just to go to the social events and just to have letters in their insta bio. That being said, I think the sisterhood aspect of sorority life is greatly lost among chapters across the nation... I joined a sorority to be a part of something bigger than myself, but to me it just seems like I'm just another number lost in a crowd. I mean don't get me wrong, I love my house and I love the friends I've made and I even love the girls in my house that I don't know too well because at the end of the day we're still sisters... However, I just feel that all houses can work a lot harder on the sisterhood aspect. I know lots of girls just feel like piggy banks in their house. Also, I think a big reason why sisterhood is so hard to improve at sororities at Alabama is because the size of pledge classes and chapters in general are just too big... You should feel connected with all the girls in your house, not just a handful in your pledge class.