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there is not a good clear answer to this question, which is a good one. many in-state girls came to the teas in packs and stayed with their pack as they went from party to party. there were even a few oos packs like that. this is a mixed reaction. on the one hand, houses want to see that a pnm is social and popular with her peers. on the other hand, we also want to get to know you as an individual and want new members that have their own personality and are not just a member of the pink ladies or whatever. best bet is to avoid big packs and couple up. but the teas are over. you will not have this come up in recruitment. but in recruitment please try to stand on your own and make your own decision. leave the hs stuff in hs and move on to the next stage of your life. recruitment will work out better for you that way and also you will be happier. college is college. hs was hs. your old friends will still be friends if they are for real. but there is such a bigger world out there. the oos girls are awesome but so many in-state girls stay in a hs mentality freshman year. its sad.