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Sitting here reading some of these replies is honestly disappointing. The point of my post was never to bash one specific person. Yet everyone seems determined to pin everything on one individual when that completely misses the point. I’ve seen what goes on behind the scenes, and I’ve watched people blame others for speaking up instead of addressing the actual issues. For the record, I left AGD a long time ago. After talking to many current members and hearing that the same problems still exist, I felt like someone needed to say something. The reality is that my experience, and the experiences shared with me, were not positive. There is very little equality within the chapter. If you’re not on exec or part of the “right” friend group, your voice doesn’t matter. Your so-called sisters judge you for everything you do, gossip behind your back, and tear each other down instead of lifting each other up. Half the time you’ll see someone you spent four years in the same sorority with, and they’ll walk right past you like they don’t even know you. From the outside, everything looks picture, perfect. But behind the scenes, it often feels like a performance. There are cliques, bullying, and a culture where people are more concerned with appearances than genuine sisterhood. There’s a reason you see the same small groups posting together over and over, but outside of mandatory sorority events, many of those relationships don’t actually exist. If this post upsets you, maybe ask yourself why. The solution isn’t attacking the person who spoke up, it’s asking why so many current and former members have similar things to say.