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Girl I feel you, I didn't find my group of friends in my sorority until I was a JUNIOR. I lived in sophomore year and thought it would help me get closer to the girls (and it did a little bit), but I still felt like every time I would feel like I was becoming good friends with someone she would go off with her own main group of friends that I wasn't a part of, and I never felt like I had any true friends and it was really hard. But once I kind of stopped trying so hard to invite myself to things and be involved in everything like they say to do, friendships started happening way more naturally and I realized there was actually a lot of girls aside from the girls living in the house who were in the same boat as me without a core friend group and I focused on them! Don't give up yet, don't dwell on what it would be like in another house, just relax about it and do your own thing with confidence, and people will gravitate towards you.