xo legacy
by: ConfusedOK.... So my mother, 2 Aunts, grandmother and both my big sisters went ChiO at Bama, Georgia or Tennessee. I'm going go rush bama in the fall. I'm really nervous it might not be the best fit. I want to go back into rush with an open mind. Does anyone have any advice? Lol after Christmas eve dinner when I said I would give a houses a chance..... Let's just say it was bad.
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First of all, you just gave out way too much information about yourself.
Second of all, it is YOUR rush. Not theirs. You will be the one visiting the houses and ordering your ranking card; therefore, you can do whatever you want! If you go through rush and don't feel at home at Chi O but feel at home somewhere else, then go where your heart is and your family will hopefully (eventually) understand (even if it takes a while). What is most important is that you find your own home. This is where you will be spending your time the next four years and the friends you will have for life. Chi O gave your family that, so find the place that will give you that. It will probably be hard to ignore all the things they say, but this is a time where you need to think about yourself, because this decision doesn't affect anyone else, except for your family maybe not getting to come to your initiation. That's it.
by: ...
It would be really easy for Chi O or another sorority to look at recs when the come in and see which PNM is a triple Chi O legacy (mom, sister, sister) who also had a grandmother and 2 aunts that were Chi O's (and all at Alabama). This website is pretty looked down upon, and I know you were only using it to get advice, but you don't really want all the sororities knowing that you posted on Greek Rank. I don't mean to scare you; it's just a precaution you might want to take in the future.
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by: Confused
Great advice! I think I'm just going to stay off the site completely it seems to be full of mean people who probably don't even go to college. And I had a heart to heart with my Mom and basically just wants me to be happy and will keep the rest of the women off my case. :)
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by: Confused
Great advice! I think I'm just going to stay off the site completely it seems to be full of mean people who probably don't even go to college. And I had a heart to heart with my Mom and basically just wants me to be happy and will keep the rest of the women off my case. :)
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by: Confused
I'm not expecting a slam dunk. Just my family got pretty upset when I said I was open to the best house for me. XO might be perfect. Another house could be. They all just got upset....
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by: Upperclassman
I think you're being wise. Chi O is good about keeping their legacies, but only if they have top grades and meet their other priorities. They could fill 2 or 3 pledge classes with legacies, so they're are no guaranteed bids.
I hope your Chi O relatives will understand that, too.
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by: Confused
Thanks for the advice!!!! But how is it too much info?
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