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Why do certain fraternities only swap with a few sororities? I thought the purpose was to get to know everyone.

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#1by: Cause   
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They are not man enough to branch out from the old and dependable.

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the old and dependable?????

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by: Gah   

old and dependable is the opposite of new and exciting. Get it?

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by: Gah   

Like "old and dependable" means girls they already know from before and they know what they are going to get. Low risk. Easy pickins.

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by: Other perspective    

Just for a frame of reference, fraternities are only allowed a certain number of swaps/ fall semester. Spring semester swaps do not work as well as fall swaps and are not worth the cost. Along with buying all the beer, they also are paying registration fees and security, so the fraternities have money invested in each swap. Rightly so, they want a return on their investment, and want to have swaps with sororities they like and want to have better relations with. Therefore, certain sororities will get asked to more swaps than others. Sorry to be the Devils advocate, but the purpose of swaps is not technically to meet everyone, parties are for that. And the sororities may be "old and dependable" because they are good sororities, don't shame them just because you aren't in their position lol

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#2by: Guest   
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It's really a dumb mentality.

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#3by: new   
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Which ones are the old and Dependable???

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#4by: nah   
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Are you referring to SAE?

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by: new   

I thought they were referring to old and dependable sororities.......I took it as the old and dependable fraternities will not swap with anyone but old and dependable sororities. Old=Old I simply asked who they were. I just thought swaps were an opportunity to get to know all greeks. I guess not.... I think I am glad I'm not old and dependable.

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#5by: John Goodepype   
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Quality is as quality does. We don't swap with the Physics club either (nor do you). It's called freedom to associate.

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#6by: new   
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I must have hit a nerve. You be just as curious. It has nothing to do with being exclusive. It's called simple courtesy...and I was not being critical I know my place ...do you know yours???? I think not. I am not begging admission to any social event. I don't have to. You are beyond rude. You are mean spirited. So go put on your socks or whatever!!!!

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by: honey   

Gimme a break! Don't let some anonymous poster on a shat board ruin your life. Most people posting on here are 40 year old weirdos pretending to be college students.
The fact that some of you take any of it seriously is shocking beyond belief.

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#7by: sad   
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My family has been in Alabama since 1826 and has I don't know how many generations of UA graduates. I am in what has been called an "old row" sorority. This whole thread makes me sad. It's like people from our state will never progress unless we are open to meeting new people and exchanging new ideas. And yet so many are seemingly stuck somewhere in the past. I just don't get it. I do lots of things with my sorority but I also branch out to get to know people in my major and in the activities where I volunteer. @John Goodepype, that's where you're going to find quality. It's not quality to be reclusive and only mix with people you've known since you were babies. Grow a backbone and open your eyes. Quality exists everywhere. Be self-confident enough to recognize it even if it's not wearing your letters.

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by: True enough   

But this is a joke! Anonymous! Pot stirring! Group of agitators! It's all just BS! All of it!

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by: uh   

frats swap with who they want. who cares. yall were mad and said it didnt matter when people made it clear that "top" frats only hang with "top" sororities and its a good indicator on rankings but now that youre actually experiencing it in a socially bottom house youre mad and it matters? goodbye. should have listened to the realness.

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by: @uh   

Oh the irony. Your disgusting attitude and sense of entitlement only serve to validate the comments made about the "top" chapters in this thread. You and "Lame" just don't know when to quit when you're already behind. Bless your heart!!

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by: lol   

its just funny bc youre complaining on this board does nothing. spend less time on greekrank and more time trying to attract girls guys want to be around. or at least the guys youre upset about not swapping with. or stop thinking youre better than the houses youre swapping with. :-)

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by: lol   

say what you want and get all worked up but it doesnt change the fact youre not swapping with dke. esp when you blame other sororities bc your house doesnt have girls they want to swap with.

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by: new   

It wasn't DKE we were wondering about...... sorry.

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#8by: pnm   
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So the same fraternities that swap with Old Row don't swap with New Row? I'm confused.

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for example DKE SAE and KA will only swap with other other old row sororites bc they are "top" and then new row houses like pi phi zeta and alpha phi bc theyre "hot" and "easy". they wont mix with houses like dg, theta, gphi.

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by: @ok   

I'm not in SAE, DKE, or KA (top tier house but not one of those three) and I don't see why they should be encouraged to swap with those bottom houses anyway.

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by: @all the haters   

Go ahead and down vote it, but if the sororities all want to swap with the top houses then the top houses should be able to choose who they want, that's just how things work. You know, I'm in a good fraternity but not the best, and while sometimes I wish sororities and fraternities just cycled their swap partners so I could meet them all, I'm actually just encouraged to get better pledge classes and improve myself so I'm as desirable as the Top Houses, and for a good reason, not something as shallow as "they're Old Row" or "They've always been top" (I feel like a lot of people want to swap with them because of those labels and not the fact that they generally have a ton of guys involved on campus, a slew of legacies, and more money to throw around than you can sniff).

You can argue either side but I ultimately think the way it works right now encourages fraternities and sororities alike to up their game, and at the end of the day it's beneficial to all. Let's not encourage handouts, but betterment. We're all in the Greek System for goodness sake, it's not like we can't if we don't put our minds to it.

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by: Well    

Apparently not. A dg in my class was wearing a dg and dke swap shirt the other day

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#9by: Lol   
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This is such a bottom tier circle-schlick. I'm laughing so hard tears are running down my face. Really OP, have some more self-respect.

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#10by: pnm   
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OK Rhett I can't go to the ball with you. My heart belongs to Ashley. Even if you have everything a girl could want......You see you aren't OLD ROW!!!! OMG and for your info I'm not in a BOTTOM Tier HOUSE.

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You're a Pnm but not in a bottom tier house?

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