here’s a PSA for all the actives refreshing GR.

for the girls that come on her constantly refreshing and looking for someone to pick apart or tear down for having questions or bully them for being incorrect about something, i truly wish you’re either not in Greek life at all or that you’re in a house I’d never be in. it truly is discouraging. some of us pnms come here for genuine advice. are we taking it as the gospel? no! we are not. and if we do that’s not your problem. either way, there is no need to belittle and treat girls badly who are clear about being a pnm or not going there…etc. or if a girl has certain stats and you’re like “yep you’re cut from this this and this… no chance”. it makes me wonder, is that what you’re telling yourself because you got cut? why are you sitting on this site refreshing daily, ask yourselves that. pnms have a reason to check so often…. why do you? are you insecure about the house you chose? looking for validation or looking to fight someone off if they disagree? not everyone is a tiktok troll and not everyone has perfect opinions. be mature with your responses, be NICE. it goes a long way. and if you can’t, feel free to comment what house you’re in.