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Chill sisterhood

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rushing and want to have fun and do well in school…but have heard some sororities are super strict and push members to do everything to have a presence on campus. Don’t want to be required to do every single UA interview just so —- has the best “involvement”. want to have a great college experience without all that stress. Suggestions on which to avoid and which to consider????

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#1by: You Don't Avoid   
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"Avoid" is not what pnm's do. The sororities do the choosing. You will have a much better rush if you accept that you are not so much in control of the houses where you will be returning throughout the week. You must accept the choices you are given. The sororities that are super focused on involvement will be focusing on the pnm's who were all that in high school, so if your resume doesn't show that, and you don't give off that vibe, you need not worry about landing in one of those houses. With that said, all sororities encourage their members to be active on campus, but even the most involved houses don't push their individual members to do it all. They want an involved membership as a whole, which is very different than what you are thinking. Yes, you will be encouraged to consider lots of opportunities, and some are more prestigious than others, but it's better for everyone if you find something to be involved in and do it really well and take an eventual leadership position in it instead of being just a member of lots of different committees. The houses that really want a presence on campus are also focused on high GPA, so there has to be a balance with what you can do within that, especially if you have a harder major. But again, you don't "avoid" as a pnm; that's handled for you.

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by: Are you a troll   

Who would downvote such a honest explaining answer?

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by: ^   

Silly little pnm's don't like to hear that the sororities are driving the train that makes the decisions on who to invite back. Look girls, it doesn't matter how much you like a house or how high you rank them because that's not figured in to how a house ranks you. The sororities don't even know your ranks of them, they are just making their own decisions and if you're not on their invitation list for the next round there's nothing your ranks will do to change it.

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by: Wth?   

Get over yourself. Seriously. Why would anyone drone on like that to make a point?

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by: ugh   

ur comment is obviously true but like. you could’ve just listed houses that are more laidback instead of writing this sermon

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by: ^   

Silly little pnm right there. Good luck with your avoidance plan.

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#2by: lol   
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These are the houses I personally have experience with being 'chill houses'

XO, DDD, Pi Phi, ADPi, DZ, AOPi, and Theta

Good luck in finding the right one for you!

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by: Chill...   

Besides AOPi(only because I don't know any girls in this house), that's an accurate list for chill girls/houses.

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by: yep   

^^ Everyone of these houses is super chill.

Sometimes AXO can be, just not around homecoming week because they get psycho-competitive; usually, in the spring, they lighten up.

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#3by: LC   
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^Yep. I don't know any AOPi or ADPi's but the others are super chill.

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#4by: Chill out   
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I am a rising junior and this is my opinion:
XO, DDD, Pi Phi, ADPi, DZ, Theta AND Aphi. I know some will freak out I put Aphi, however, my friends I have that are Aphi are probably the most chill out of everyone.

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I don't know about APhi - all the girls I have met have been nice, but high maintenance...

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by: Tsk tsk tsk   

You had to wait for sooo long for someone finally mentioning APhi didn’t you?
I wouldn’t put them in the chilled sisterhood category. Sure there are cool girls but in general their house is full of toxic internal drama and competition plus belittling.

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by: Chill out   

The girls I know in Aphi (I'm a rising sophomore are all super chill.

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by: Good for you   

Well aren’t you lucky 🙏🏻👍🏼 unfortunately I can’t confirm from my experience with them.

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#5by: GR Moderator 2022   
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Bumping to clean board.

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