Calling All Actives Part 2 : Rush Crushes
by: Staceyactives - what is something a pnm said or did during rush that made you think “wow, i really want this girl in my house/to be my little/etc”? what is something that made you think “ i do not want her in my house!”
#1by: give it up
Comment#2by: Active
When a girl who I am already really clicking with also shows a lot of interest in my house and says she's really excited to be invited back = rush crush for sureeee
When a girl badmouths another house or complains about the recruitment process in general = def don't want her in my house
by: pnm
are we allowed to say we're invited to be invited back or is that considered showing favoritism? Like could we say "I hope I get to see you again soon"?
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by: Yes
by: @ pnm
Yeah I think it's fine to say "I was so excited when I saw XYZ on my schedule, I would be so happy to be invited back here again"
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by: pnm
at what point is it crossing a line into saying too much? like saying “i could really see myself here, i feel so welcomed & always feel at home when i walk thru the doors” be too strong or is that okay?
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by: @pmm
That is way too strong
Sounds a lil clingey and desperate. Just be yourself and don't be fake and awkward
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by: @pnm
I would save all that for pref or at LEAST sisterhood. You gotta read the room for sure, if you lightly bring it up that you really like the house the active WILL notice it so don't overdo it. At sisterhood/pref if you're really clicking with a girl and having a very genuine conversation, you could maybe ask "well how did you know XYZ was the house for you" and she says "I just felt so comfortable and at home blah blah blah", you could maybe say "that's kind of exactly how I'm feeling about this house!" So it's less desperate sounding, more casual that way
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by: Buy Doge 🐶🚀🌓
#3by: active
When I had rushed (PC18) when I was first picked up by a girl at a house I liked after being invited back (philanthropy), I usually said something along the lines of "I'm super excited to be back" Nothing more than that though until maybe sisterhood/def pref. During IWT focus on showing your excitement by being engaged in the convos with all the girls you speak to!
by: Buy Doge 🐶🚀🌓
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