sad w/ my house

by: hi August 17, 2020 2:46:19 PM

i am not feeling good about the house that offered me a bid. anyone else feel this way? it was my second choice.

Posted By: hiAugust 17, 2020 2:46:19 PM

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#1by: @hi August 17, 2020 2:50:30 PM

You lose nothing by giving it a try. If you completely 100% throw yourself in and try to get to know the sisters, you will likely be surprised at how much you will enjoy it. But you need to actually 100% throw yourself in and take the initiative to get to know people and get involved

(I'm a sorority woman so speaking from that POV)

By: @hiAugust 17, 2020 2:50:30 PM

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by: Cham August 17, 2020 3:08:01 PM

It will cost you around $4000 to find out if you like your house or not. I quit and bought a car with the money I saved

By: ChamAugust 17, 2020 3:08:01 PM

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by: 😂 August 17, 2020 3:11:41 PM

Don’t listen to that person you don’t pay a dime until initiation.

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#2by: . August 17, 2020 2:54:15 PM

Tough it out for a while, but if you’re really unhappy just make sure you drop before initiation

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#3by: Omg August 17, 2020 3:02:53 PM

It’s been 24 hours!

By: OmgAugust 17, 2020 3:02:53 PM

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#4by: let down feeling August 17, 2020 3:06:02 PM

All the girls (even the ones who lie and say they're perfectly happy) have a letdown feeling after recruitment. You go from everyone saying you're wonderful to all the actives going back to their real lives. The thing that will make it better is your attitude. Go to the house. Meet your new sisters. Volunteer for everything. Spend time getting to know everyone. Good luck!

By: let down feelingAugust 17, 2020 3:06:02 PM

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by: +1 August 17, 2020 7:33:49 PM

this^ give it time to meet the actives and others in your pledge class. you will not instantly have a connection. we value you and saw things in you that connected with our sisterhood. give it some time to find your people in the house. I thought there was a huge letdown after our big run and I am IS and knew lots of people in my house from home.

By: +1August 17, 2020 7:33:49 PM

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#5by: U will find your girls August 17, 2020 7:43:36 PM

I promise when things hopefully get rolling u will find you group within your pledge class. Everyone is still emotionally spent and with pledge classes of 110 it will take some time. U will be on campus when school starts and find girls from your pledge class in your classes, start going to eat lunch together at the house, walk to class, etc. give it a bit I promise it will pay off soon enough!

By: U will find your girlsAugust 17, 2020 7:43:36 PM

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#6by: Gg August 17, 2020 7:59:44 PM

I felt lost in my house for weeks before things clicked for me, I was so uncomfortable and sad in my top choice even though the members were so friendly, but trust me it gets better! You find your people, start recognizing girls and befriending them, it's awesome

By: GgAugust 17, 2020 7:59:44 PM