rush has killed my self confidence

Checking back. I hope you are feeling better as this process nears the end?

Ladies going through recruitment. Unfortunately what no one ever realizes as a pnm, there’s no one going through a list of individual girls saying “yes her, no her”. After conversations actives put into a computer a little about your conversations and the computer generates the next days list. And it’s a set number of the top X girls come back. And that’s something no one realizes till they’re an active. Don’t let it bring you down. That house that cut you probably really did love you and someone was probably really sad to see you didn’t get asked back. I would check every day to see if my rush crush’s came back. And most of the time they didn’t.

Hopefully, this is a happier day for everyone rushing as they try to picture themselves joining a sisterhood for the next four years! Rush week is hard on everyone, and when you are on the other side next year, you will probably still find this a tough week. The best part is tomorrow, when a new member class is welcomed by each sorority.