How come certain girls aren’t rushed hard

Usually, if a PNM has great attributes and isn’t being “rushed super hard”, it’s because she may not know or have friends who are current actives in the houses. Current actives usually don’t see these girls and decide against rushing them super hard, but more of actives don’t think of it unless they know the girl super well. Additionally, chapters tend to go harder on girls they feel are completely up in the air and could easily be swayed, but also someone every chapter will be chomping at the bit to get.

Also, I should add, just because someone isn’t getting comments or texts does NOT mean she will not have a good rush. Commenting and texting affect very few girls and usually mean very little during the process itself.

It makes me sad that pnms are stressing over not being rushed as hard :( I was the same way. I am from OOS, had a 4.0 coming out of high school, and I would say that I am decent looking female. I LITERALLY HAD NO IDEA about greekrank or the stereotypes of each house 😂 I assumed no one wanted me because I wasn’t receiving as many comments on instagram, but that simply isn’t true for ANY pnm. I went through rush only getting dropped by 1 house (my worst conversation throughout all of rush was in this house) and ended up in a house that has a very distinct stereotype, but that I am literally in love with! Don’t stress about instagram comments or dms, because at the end of the day the right house will find you! Much love to all of you pnms out there and good luck! ❤️