Is it better...

Better for what?

house is everything

I’m honestly a lot happier being one of the prettiest girls in an average looks house and being able to stand out than being one of the least attractive and feeling self conscious in a looks house. As shallow as it sounds that’s the truth. Yes I do wish I was in a stereotypically prettier house but I know i would be much more self conscious on my appearance and would not be happy having to overly fixate on what I look like.

I mean I would rather be super pretty in whatever house. Your sorority is for 4 years, pretty is forever 🤷‍♀️

I feel like house is everything. Being the prettiest doesn’t mean much if guys lose interest once finding out what house you’re in solely because it’s not the house they hope. Ik how shallow that sounds but it’s sad and the truth. It also would suck to be pretty and talk to the “prettiest” PNMs during recruitment, many of whom would act disinterested because they know they’re good enough for a “looks house.” But even being “average” , you can still look hot in a group of pretty girls lmfao