how do i know if houses likes me?

You won't know until pref! Be careful with APhi. I heard they're struggling with return rates.

The only way to tell if they want you, is if they give you a bid. Liking you is a completely different story. They may love you. The girls you've talked to this week might think that you are everything they want, but if they don't have enough pull, they may not be able to keep you on the house list.

That doesn't mean they don't like you. It just means they wanted other PNMs more.

sorry but not really. the actives are going to be nice to you no matter what. just carry on a normal conversation and don’t make the actives do most of the talking. you may still get dropped but i can assure you the girl you’re talking to will like you a lot more if youre able to do that.

Don’t do aphi

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If they keep inviting you back, that means they like you. There are more than enough outstanding PNMs for any chapter to invite back that no one needs to waste invites on filler girls. If you made it to sisterhood with a house, even if you're a legacy, that means they like you.

However, as has been said before many times, just because a house likes you or an active likes you does NOT mean that you are guaranteed a bid. Even if an active tells you "I'm so excited to see you on our lawn, you're going to be my little, I can't wait to have you as a sister" doesn't guarantee you a bid. Nothing's for sure until you have a physical bid in your hand. That's why there are always a few actives heartbroken on bid day when their favorite girl doesn't end up at their house; rush is much more than one person's opinion.