ways to stand out

You show your best self when you just let it rip and have fun and be yourself. Too few PNMs go into it with that attitude and get too uptight and clam up. Just do you without regrets. Girls with that attitude are refreshing and stand out.

And give yourself some free passes—you’re GOING to say something less than perfect, do something you wish you hadn’t, think of the perfect response after you leave, etc... it’s not if you mess up, but how you handle it, imo. My best friend squeezed her water glass so hard she shattered it and that water FLEW. Up in the air, onto her lap, some splatter on the active—she was able to turn it into a joke as, “I’m just so excited to be here, hahaha!” and she still got that house—her number 1 choice.