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Just finished BB today, met with 6 NR fraternities while I was in town and received no bids. Will I still have have a chance come rush week? Not sure where to go from here or just give up trying to rush. A couple fraternities I don't care about once I actually met their members, but a couple fraternities I really liked and thought they liked me. Kind of frustrating, especially seeing some of the guys getting bids. smh....

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#1by: yes   
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Yes, sign up for fall rush with ifc. You will get to visit all the houses and get a chance at a bid. You may even get a bid from one of those 6 houses.

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#2by: Hh   
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It’s all about connections brother. Tbh, you’re kinda late in the game to go on University. Most of OR houses gave out the bids around 1st bama bound, but sometimes we spare a couple.

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I get it about connections, but come on man, is it all about legacy and HS j/o buddies? Some of the guys getting bids looked like they never did an athletic thing in their life, are a 3-4/10 in looks and seemed awkward as hell (at least will be with ladies). They must have known or blown someone. I didn't even set my sights on OR because I'm from Chicago and the things I've read about OOS but I also don't want to be in the bottom. I thought this would be a great way to make lifelong friends, grow as a person and have some fun while I'm at it. Just frustrating.

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#3by: No emails    
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No no no. We don’t respond to emails. Just text them and talk to them. And the most important thing about rushing is be yourself and talk to people at the parties if you’re invited. Don’t focus on getting girls, at least not yet.

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Forgot to ask, but will there be parties before move in? I registered for Friday (8/17) move in, but wondering if I should get there sooner than that. How will I hear about them?

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#4by: UA   
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Just reading this thread. You can forget about being Old Row. Nothing personal. But being from Chicago and not knowing anyone will already work against you. Go through Rush. Maybe focus on some good New Row houses on Jefferson. LXA, KE, DX all have guys from the north. Beta does as well. You'll find that many OR fraternity members are very awkward. That's how it is at Alabama.

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Appreciate it. So will these NR fraternities still have bids to hand out come rush? Otherwise, I was thinking of flying down for a couple days in July to try again and maximize the summer months. Not sure if another trip would be beneficial.

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#5by: tbh   
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jefferson houses aren't that bad. if you really care about status then try hard for a house on jefferson. but if you just want friends and parties then jefferson does all that plus more. i'd say the "easiest" to get a bid from on univ blvd is probably phi psi and beta... pi kap and theta chi too if you're their type. and pike if you're good looking and wild. besides that, all other univ blvd houses rely heavily on connections.

this is how i would rank the jefferson houses:
lxa, dx, ks: fun guys who like to party, mostly oos guys, almost like a lesser version of pike
akl, zbt, phi sig: very average houses, lots of guys who like to party, not really known for anything in particular
chi phi, sig pi, dtd: least popular houses, easy to get a bid

in a sorority girl's honest opinion, pledge a house that you genuinely like. don't worry about tiers because honestly if you don't like the guys then you're not going to have an enjoyable greek experience. every house has their groupies!!! seriously it's crazy but literally every frat has girls who go to every party, know all the guys, and genuinely like being at the house. also, you're not closed off to just your frat... i know you mentioned wanting to meet girls but you can literally go out to the bars any night of the week and meet other people on top of meeting people in class and other clubs.

there should be groupmes for guys who are rushing, or at least there should be. go into the Facebook groups for the class of 2022 and search for rush groupmes and if there aren't any you could always make one, that way you can talk to other guys and compare where y'all are in the process.

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Thanks for advice. A couple of the fraternities on university you mentioned I actually like and want to rush. Just wondering if too late. I might not be wild enough for Pike since I only drink and stay away from the other stuff.
As for girls, glad to hear each house has some groupies. I was getting the impression from this site that some of them are pretty shallow and only care about a guys letters.

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