some real truth

I appreciate this sentiment A LOT, but I will say as someone involved in the "behind the scenes" work for my sorority the past two recruitments in a row, I can usually guess which 2-3 houses a girl is likely to end up in just based off her resume, social media, etc.

I think the difference is that a PNM doesn't see herself the way a recruitment team sees her and PNMs are likely to get caught up in what they THINK a house is like before recruitment begins. I may be able to guess which houses she would ACTUALLY fit in with, because I know this campus really well, but she can only guess which houses fit her "idea" of a good fit.

That's why it's so, so important for PNMs to let go of where they THINK they belong and go where they feel cherished, wanted, supported, etc.

PNM’s need to get off greek rank!!! THIS SITE IS FULL OF BS

In think this has merit.

If you look at pref lists girls rarely have the three most similar houses - and there is a lot of top- bottom mix on girls lists by pref. (I know there are exceptions but it is also common to have a wide range of houses by pref).

So there are many girls (in lower ranked houses)!who had one bad conversation, or got placed with a girl with whom she just didn't click, or may have had one "enemy" in the house.

It's rude to assume these girls "really" are beneath the "better" house. The "better" houses do get a few "un- deserving" girls in the process

Yes once in the house certain house reputations and behaviors may take over and solidify certain traits, but the girls in top versus bottom houses are way more similar than different - especially I. The broader world outside the Bama bubble.