as a gdi will you have no friends?
by: GdiI am going to Bama next year but I do not want to rush my first year as I would like to get adjusted to the school first. I’m out of state so don’t know people but I am a partier and I hope the sorority girls will not exclude me. What should I expect?
#1by: rtr
Honestly waiting until sophomore year to rush isn’t a good idea because in most casss being in a sorority helps you adjust to school better. You will feel excluded because if all of your friends are in sororities and they are going to their date parties and swaps and you can’t go you’ll feel really left out and want to transfer.
Commentby: @Nah gorl
You don't go here do you?
This might be shocking to you, but sorority girls have non-greek friends, do non-greek activities and a lot of the time even have non-greek boyfriends.
OP: The majority of people on campus are NOT Greek. I'd recommend it, but if you join things and put yourself out there, you will make friends and be fine. Do what's best for you.
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by: Ummm
#5by: tbh
Putting off rush is not a good idea. Some girls will literally not talk to other girls in their classes because they’ll have sisters in their classes and that will be all they need. When a girl is surrounded by potential sister friends they don’t tend to look for others. If you get some good gdi roommates you can probably befriend them. If you plan on ever rushing, your best bet is to do so freshman year.
by: advice
But I tend to change my mind about things all the time. If I want to transfer I might not be able to have a normal rush at other schools. I want to be able to make friends with sorority girls bc I will most likely rush in spring or fall sophomore year. I have a really good insta following and dress well so wouldn’t sorority girls want to be my friend?
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by: advice
I mean maybe if I talk to sorority girls they will be interested in being my friends. Why would they judge me for talking to them. If I ask to hang out I’m sure they wouldn’t say no
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by: 453
Starting to think this is a troll post, but on the off chance that it isn't, most sorority girls WILL talk to you, and WILL be your friend. The moron dropping a blanket statement that they won't, is lying, and has no idea what they are talking about.
That said, even if you make friends with sorority girls, there will be a lot of activities that they do that you will not be able to be involved in.
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#6by: Guest
As a freshmen last year from out of state rushing it was the best thing I could have done. My grades were better because you have 140 freshmen sisters that are taking your classes and willing to help. You will have neighbors in your dorm room in Greek life that will be going to all the events. This can leave you feeling left out in the sense you can't relate to them. I'm not saying it's a must but it's a huge part of the campus. Greek life if anything helps you way more than being on your own school wise. I think you should go through rush and if you find out it isn't helping just drop.
#7by: Eh
I don’t think the issue is that sorority girls will be exclusive and rude to GDIs (unless they’re rude people, and why would you want to be friends with mean girls anyway), it’s that especially during freshman year girls will be so busy and involved with things going on in their house and making new friends. If you’re a gdi you can’t go to most of the things they’ll be doing and your experience will be totally different than theirs.
I’ve had a good number of non-Greek friends the whole time I’ve been in a sorority, but freshman year I mostly was close with girls in my house because we all spent so much time together and bonded over sorority experiences
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by: Nah gorl
If you are a gdi sorority girls do not want to hang out with you. No way
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