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by: Hayley   

Ok. I’m attending this school next fall and don’t know if I want to rush. Can you still go to frat parties and parties in general if your not in a sorority. Can you still have a good college experience ??? Please be honest because Ik UA is a HUGE greek school??

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#1by: Yes   
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65% of the school isn't Greek. You can have a perfectly normal college experience. Especially as a girl.

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by: But   

Of that remaining 65% like 25% are black or international (they do their own thing) and then you have to account for athletes, million dollar band, cheerleaders, etc. and now you’re left with uninvolved kids who aren’t that social

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Plus Mallet, hipsters, super-religious types, those who go home every weekend ...

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by: Pretty much   

If you’re debating rushing you’d probabaly fit in with the Greeks, and outside of the Greeks there’s not going to be many people you’ll mesh with. There’s some weird kids on this campus...

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#2by: honest   
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you can still go to all the fraternity parties such as band parties. however speaking as a formerly sorority member, now GDI — expect to feel left out. it doesn’t matter that it’s only 35% greek or whatever it feels like 98% greek even if you only have like 2 greek friends. my roommate is actually transferring because she hates how much greek life controls UA

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by: Um   

Hang out with non Greek ppl it’s not that hard

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#3by: Tbh   
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I have non Greek friends and they love it. It gets better after freshman year. People don't really care about your affiliation junior/senior year.

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#4by: rush   
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I was not in a sorority freshman year but I’m in one now as a sophomore and I love being greek, if you’re fine with seeing everyone going to swaps and date parties and wearing gameday shirts and going to Greek only events that you can’t go to and you’re fine with being left out, then it’s totally fine to not rush. But if you feel like you’re going to see everyone going to things that you can’t go to and you get upset (which is what happened to me freshman year) I would say definitely rush.

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by: Also   

Keep in mind that it may be harder to get involved in some extracurricular activities and leadership opportunities if you're not Greek.

And while most Greeks are cool with GDIs, there will be the occasional entitled jerk who will snub you or walk away when they find out you're not in a house.

Honestly, if you're not sure you want to rush, I think I might look at another school where Greeks don't "rule the school" as much.

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#5by: anonymous   
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As a GDI, you can definitely have a good time at mama. You can still get into all the fraternity parties and tailgates. HOWEVER, it is definitely harder to make friends when you aren't involved in greek life and it's easy to feel left out. You won't be involved in things like swaps, greek week, homecoming week, etc. I would recommend to anyone coming here to at least give greek life a try! I've seen plenty of people do just fine without it but I've also seen plenty of people hate it

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#6by: Honestly    
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If you don’t go Greek and you’re out of state you’ll start to ask yourself why you came here and that leads to a lot of people transferring

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#7by: 123   
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If you do end up coming here and not rushing live in a traditional style dorm that’s not Tut so you’ll have more opportunities to make friends with the people on your floor

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#8by: .   
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You can still have fun if you're not greek, but it's easy to feel left out and it's harder to make friends for some people. It seems like everyone you meet will ask you what your name is, where you're from, and what sorority you're in. If you respond with "oh, I'm not in a sorority" they always respond with "aw, that's okay, you can still make friends" or at least that's what happened my freshman year. It seems kinda dumb but being greek is really important here. It's honestly worth it to rush and if you end up hating it, you can always drop.

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#9by: Just go greek   
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Its just easier to have a good time as a Greek. Each house has committees that plan lots of social events like swaps, date parties, sisterhood events, games, etc almost every week or so. This is a big advantage as a freshman, where you jump right into these events. After the first year, you pretty much know how to have a good time, but even then, as a Greek, lots of your friends are in the same house and you go to events together.

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#10by: Regrets   
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Honestly if you can rush freshman year (and it's doable for you financially) I would recommend doing it. I rushed as a sophomore this year (after feeling left out freshman year) and really wish I would have done it my first year here. Although there are other ways to meet people, going greek is a super easy way to make friends with girls, meet guys, socialize. If it's really not for you no one will kill you if drop second semester or your sophomore year. These are just my thoughts. Although only 35% of the entire UA student body is greek it feels wayyyyy more like 80% of freshman girls are. Nonetheless, if you're super outgoing/already know people here/find it easy to make friends it might not be necessary. This is just coming from someone who regrets not doing it in the first place. :)

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