big sis change?

by: Troubled Pledge August 20, 2017 1:09:41 PM

I want to give my house and my PC a chance, but my Big is totally turning me off. Nice girl but unfortunately we have nothing in common. Can I ask/suggest/hint at a change? Is it done? How is it done? Please don't judge me as a rude, ungrateful pledge. If we don't click, the situation will be awkward for both of us. Any polite advice would be appreciated.

Posted By: Troubled PledgeAugust 20, 2017 1:09:41 PM

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#1by: chill August 20, 2017 1:11:27 PM

that girl you ran to on bid day is just a bid day buddy (some call them bid day bigs...whatever). you get your actual big later.
everyone needs to get off of here and go listen to their new member educators and enjoy their retreats and bond with their pledge class!!!

By: chillAugust 20, 2017 1:11:27 PM

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#2by: LLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL August 20, 2017 1:19:08 PM

FOR REAL. New members, please you're wasting your time posting here. All of these new members who are feeling like outsiders or that they are in the wrong place really aren't giving their chapters a chance at the retreats...

By: LLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLAugust 20, 2017 1:19:08 PM

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#3by: Trolls August 20, 2017 1:42:58 PM

Bet 90% of them are trolls.

By: TrollsAugust 20, 2017 1:42:58 PM

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#4by: Me August 20, 2017 2:58:01 PM

That girl is not your big; she was your Bid Day buddy. Most chapters have different actives paired up with you for an month-ish so you get to know several older girls. Usually the one you click with becomes your Big.

I will say that ever Big-Lil relationship is different. Some girls become absolute bff's and others don't ever become that close. Be friendly with the girls they pair you up with but don't have your heart broken if your Big isn't your everything.

By: MeAugust 20, 2017 2:58:01 PM