boyfriends

you're an adult, it's your personal life, date whoever you want. you'll find most sorority girls date frat guys here but that's just because greeks interact with greeks so frequently it's probs easier for you to meet frat guys than independent guys. no one will care about your bf's affiliation though.

The frats might care, because you are one less girl for them to sleep with, but that probably won't be an issue for you so you are all good.

I mean, your BF won't be able to come to Swaps, but your Date Parties and formals should be good to go.

Don't let your boyfriend guilt you into not fully participating in all sorority events. If he's not Greek he won't understand and there's a good chance he will get jealous and worried. He should support you and trust you, not whine or complain or force you to make a choice. First semester can be the worst for this. Be independent and do what you want to do because you'll only get this chance once in your lifetime.