dear pnms,

Dear PNMs,
If you are on this website, I am sorry. I am sorry for all the cruel things that are said on here, said about your best friends house, your cousins house, your big sisters house, and eventually YOUR house. I actually consider myself lucky that I was unaware of this website until after accepting my bid. After being here for a year I can tell you that I could find something degrading about each house on here (including my own, which I love btw). Thats almost all this website is, negative posts. Some of the girls who post on here say things that are so mean, I doubt they could say it face-to-face and still have good conscious, thats why they are here hiding behind a computer screen to do so. There are good and bad in every house. The best advice I can give you (because lets face it thats probably the main reason you're on here if you are a pnm) is to find a house during rush that you feel like your truest self in. By that I mean you not only feel comfortable acting goofy and funny in, but one that you can be just as comfortable talking about your family or an embarrassing story from your summer. The entire week you will feel as if you have to present yourself in each house, but once your home you don't have to pretend or morph your personality, you will just be 100% yourself. I sincerely hope that everyone who reads this understands and will have the same realization I had.