bogus big?

If you are a person who declines the opportunity of friendship to a woman new to your sorority (a 'little') because you had a bad experience with just ONE OF THREE HUNDRED+ WOMEN in your sorority, then the issue is what are you willing to do to improve your attitude and indoctrinate the 'little' you deserve.

Somehow you decided your big sux at social interaction, and that is the legacy you will continue within your house by not taking a little. That'll show those who want to belong to my house!

Truly you need to evaluate any and all positive sorority experiences you can pass-on to a 'little' and take one this fall because you may never get another 'little' chance. You already know how some nice women treat their 'littles', model your behavior after them.

I remember there being a similar post a few months back and it was titled the same exact thing lol. Personally, I'm not that close with my big. I see her around every once and a while and we talk when it's necessary but overall we don't have that perfect big/little relationship that you see on Total Sorority Move lol. We never met before big/little but I did put her down on my list because she seemed nice and cool and I actually really do like her, and I think the reason we don't really talk is because we're both kind of busy honestly and because she's also not too involved in our sorority.
To be completely honest, big/little is pretty much just hype. I don't think a lot of girls tend to have a big attachment to their bigs or littles unless they were actually friends before hand. It may seem that all the girls in your PC are obsessed with their bigs but it really is just all hyped up for the most part.
I suggest putting yourself out there. DEFINITELY get a little!!! If you don't have a strong relationship with your big then you should make up for it by having a strong relationship with your little! At this point you really just need to put yourself out there and try to form bonds that create a strong big/little relationship.