one house

You are good! Just tell them how much you love their chapter!!

1. There are still a lot of girls who will be attending prefs. It is VERY unlikely the house knows what other prefs you are attending. And the active members SHOULD NOT be asking. If they do, just smile and say, "Well, this is it, but I couldn't be happier about that fact!"

2. BUT DO NOT BRING IT UP YOURSELF.

If you make it to pref, under the recruitment rules (...which I still don't completely understand) and you list all of the houses that invited you, you are supposed to be guaranteed a bid. Thus, even if the chapter you invites has girls listed above you on their final rankings, you will still get a bid, even it that puts them over quota. (I think I am saying that correctly).

It is none of their business. It's no more appropriate for them to ask where else you are going than it is for you to ask them where they are going to put you on their bid list. Think up a diplomatic response if someone does ask, such as "I am so thrilled to be here! I have had such a good feeling about your chapter this whole week, and am so grateful to be here. This is where I want to be." Something like that should diffuse it. If she persists then tell her what you feel most comfortable with; I am only attending your pref party or I don't feel comfortable to say.

Good luck!

There's really no need to tell them they're your only pref house (I would actually advise against it), but you can definitely let them know that they're your #1 choice and that you feel like you found your home with them.

If they ask- which they shouldn't- just say how happy you were to see them on your schedule because they're your favorite house.

But yeah, you'll totally be there tomorrow for bid day. Yay!!

Does not matter if they know. They could put you dead last tonight and you still get a bid. You will be one of their pledge class 2016. Congrats!