i have 2 of the top houses left that i love

You should be prepared to be released and prepared to accept you may just be their top pnm. Just go forward and bring all you got to every party.

Hard to know. Even the instate centric houses take oos girls, or out of country. So just keep swimming trying to make connections and getting a feel for houses.

Rank the houses in the order you feel the most connections/ at home and let the chips fall where they may. Your top choices might invite you back or they might cut you.

Be open to all houses you attended this round, but make sure you're following your heart and not just doing what you think is the most prestigious thing. You're trying to find your college besties, roomates, and future bridesmaids, not trying to get into what you think is the best house for your resume.

Don't jinx yourself by trying to guess what a sorority is thinking. Pick where you want to go back not who you think will invite you back. Being British is exotic in a good way- they probably both want you!