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i'm a legacy and scared i'll be cut

by: Yeah   

All I have left is my legacy house and another 2 I'm not too keen on. I really love my legacy but I'm painfully shy which is why I've been cut from a lot of other houses I think. So nervous they'll cut me tomorrow from what I heard on here. I hope I've made it known how much I like them by rating them as 1 every time.

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#1by: Truth   
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I don't think they know you have ranked them as first every time. You have to let them know how much you like them in a nice but not over the top way.

By: Truth
#2by: Gigi   
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The sororities don't see your ranking. You need to tell them you like them without being weird.

By: Gigi
by: Yes   

Like don't come off as sounding desperate and you're going to die if you don't get them but TELL THEM that you really see yourself there as your home. A lot of girls don't get this but the actives can't read your mind and if they are unsure where they stand with you they could release you.

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#3by: C   
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Responses on here are good but prepare yourself to learn to like those other two

By: C
#4by: Me   
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You need to mentally prepare yourself for tomorrow, just in case. If your legacy drops you, are you 100% sure that you would rather not be Greek than be in either of those houses? How can you be SO sure that you're not a good fit for the 400 girls in that house based on the less than 1 hour you've spent with either house? All of our houses are great; all are selective. The ones inviting you back are the ones that are something amazing in you for their sisterhood. They aren't inviting you back just to fill up their house during parties.

I hope you will finish the week with an open mind no matter how the chips fall. If you do get invited back to your legacy house, do be enthusiastic in sharing how much you love the chapter and how awesome it is that your legacy house is also your favorite!

And no, the houses don't know what you ranked them or even if you listed them as a number other than 1.

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#5by: :)   
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@me, thanks. Maybe I was a little harsh about the other 2. They're good houses, I'm just enthusiastic about my legacy. I'll try to keep an open mind about tomorrow! X

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