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Sorry girlie. Cob will pick you up.

Thanks. Being OOS (but a neighbouring state) just makes me nervous. I don't really care about tiers but I wanted to rush so much and find the right home. Do recs and all that jazz even matter for COB? Is it only bottom tier? :( Any chance in hell panhel will let me miss the assembly tomorrow and cram all IWTs into day 2? Ugh.

I think you mom is wrong. You should try to go. If you can make it some part you have a shot at COB. You need to call Panhellenic. Was your mom Greek?

You should try to rush if you are up to it. I'm in a house and honestly if you're a good PNM on paper (grades, etc.) your story would make you very memorable to girls in the houses and not to mention... The girls will understand if you explain yourself, we're not heartless.

Rest is important with a concussion. At least call Panhellenic and tell them what's happening. They may can help with the heat thing if you find you can attend a little late.

I am calling in 6 hours to see what my options are. My mom is Bama Greek. She is scared I might get dizzy and passsout.And hurt my self worse. I mean I'm not like totally ruined my face will be better soon. I can trade my wedges for sandals. My best friends agrees with yall. We have been planning on rushing together since kindergarten.

You need to do you. If physically you cant rush then you cant. Panhel works this kind of thing out. You very well do all open houses on day 2. Yes someone who despite all odds still showed up. That will count. Family connections will help you like you said your mom was a bama greek. Go for it if you are healthy enough. Your health is more inportant. Get it together if you can. Drink a million water/ Gatorade. Don't take pills on an empty tummy. Girls will rember you. But dknt dk ot you really arent well. If your PK gets you high or loopy you wnt have a good convos\n\n\n\n\n

You can call and explain your situation to Panhellenic. They might even let you miss some days if you need to and send an email to the sororities with what is going on. They may be able to extend you invites to extra rounds even though you aren't at the first parties because the houses know what's going on and may be willing to take a chance on you early on if you can make it later in the week once there are less parties.

Hang in there. You can try to COB or rush next year. This year, phi Mu, dz, dg, alpha phi and ADPi all did cob. Meet some actives and you may get invited to some events.

Thanks for all your kind words. I called panhel very early this morning and they were so kind and offered a few different options. Then I had an MRI... Its more than just an concussion (not too serious, just more than a bump). Also what caused me to fall was being clumsy, I had an inner ear problem I didn't know about that was throwing off my balance. So hospital for a few days and getting that taken care of. Honestly I'm glad it happened when did. Anyway just no rush. I have a few cousins in houses and I'll have friends who just got their bid. Here's hoping for a good turn on. I really don't want to wait a year but I don't want special treatment either. Have a great first day!!!!