this is the real truth pnms

This is Alabama, the arguably one of the biggest sorority systems in the country, but that's not the point. EVERY chapter here is good. Even if where you end up is not a top tier, I promise that no one thinks any less of you. If they do, then you don't want them in your life. If someone judges you because you're not old row or because you're in a sorority perceived as elitist, then they're not worth keeping around. As a member of a new row sorority frequently ranked near the end, I was just as worried as you are that people would not like me or I'd be judged unfairly. While it is the reality that there is some preference given to old row and top tier sororities, I have at least one friend or acquaintance in every sorority and they are all amazing girls. I know girls that defy every stereotype--- smart alpha phis, out of state KDs, pretty Thetas. None of them are true. Please keep this in mind and go into recruitment with an open mind and heart, regardless of where you think you'll end up based on a stereotype. I know top PNMs that I wouldn't want in our sorority, not because of anything about them, just because I know they'd be happier somewhere else. Believe it or not, the goal of sororities aren't just to get the hottest and smartest rich girls, but to find girls that would enjoy and enrich our sisterhood.