The truth about social life in each srats and frat

here is the actual truth:

Top/Upper frats: Mixers every weekend, 'exclusive' parties that are not opens, wine tours, formals, date nights

Upper mid frats: believe it or not, they have more mixers than top/upper frats because they mix with a wider range of sororities. However, mixers with certain srats are whack bec those girls dont show up. Eg a Chi Phi-SDT mixer would be empty. Wine tours, formals, date nights and some open parties

Mids: Mix with a wide range of srats (but limited options from srats) and mixers every weekend. A lot of multiways that turn into opens. call all frats in mid and below 'frats of the ppl' because theyre not as exclusive. Wine tours, formals and date nigths

Lower mid: A mixer per weekend or per two weeks. Less opens because they dont have big social budgets but the opens are massive. Formals, date nights, wine tours

Bottom/Others: a mixer a month maybe or not at all. a lot of opens. formals, wine tours, date nights


Srats:
ALL srats get mixers. ALL srats get frats to do rides for them. You WILL have a social life and theres attractive guys in every frat. Though the proportion of normal/attractive guys decreases as you go down the ranks

At the end of the day, you will have a social life no matter what. some frats like DX are whack. they are infamous for haveingone mixer a month because they think theyre too good to mix with a 'bottom srat'. Its the same problem with social climbey frats that are considered 'relevant'.

Lastly, there is always the network you establish on campus through your frat and srat. your brothers, your sisters and the friends you make through them. its better to be in a 'bottom' frat or srat than be a geed.