Can someone give me a good reason to be in a strat

So everything I’ve gotten so far about Greek life here is that rushing is cruel and Greek life is full of toxicity and drama and spoiled, narcissistic social climbers with daddy’s money who cares too much about what everyone thinks about them but at the same time doesn’t care about anyone and want sisters for life but will stab them in the back for a guy they’ve known for 20 minutes from a frat party. Obviously that’s particularly true but is anyone on here actually happy? Is there someone who doesn’t care about all the ranking brining others down? Anyone who actually thinks Greek life is the best decision they’ve ever made? Anyone who’s in a low tier house and satisfied and doesn’t worry about the stigma? I’m just curious