Scoring questions during philo

These three things are tops and far more important to any of them than being good looking, even for a 'looks' house:
- If the two of you connect with each other in your conversation in a way that makes her think "yes, I want to be friends with this girl!"
- What your actual attitude is about being at that party; are you really interested in joining her sorority or are you just there because it was on your schedule.
- Does your particular vibe fit with their house. Every sorority has a vibe, which has nothing to do with so-called 'rank'. It's something you just feel when you meet your own people.

It’s not a secret. Everyone’s looking for someone who is interested in what they’re saying, asks good questions, is relaxed and comfortable with themselves, smiles and engages with everyone, is kind and confident.

This is a hard person to be if it’s not who you are – so be yourself and push yourself a little. You’ll do great.