open letter to oos pnms
by: out of stateComing from out of state without connections you're screwed, unless you are one of those special cases where everything just happens to fall in place. But for most, especially if your average looking or have an average resume, RUSH WILL SUCK. You'll find yourself looking at your pref schedule with all lower tier houses. And if your like me, you'll regret leaving home and going somewhere where you don't know anyone just to get lower tier. When you could've easily had top tier at home but you pushed yourself out of your comfort zone. I just wanted to remind anyone who may find themselves here to remember that these house can be a gift. They're filled with other girls like you from all over unlike some sororities which are basically a conglomerate of states in the deep south. These houses will introduce you to new people and new ideas and perspectives from all around the country. These houses will help diversify you, which is why you left home in the first place. So just remember, while top tier is awesome, the bottom sororities can offer something top tier can't and don't hang your head for losing a game where the odds were already stacked against you.
Commentby: Active
Being super social is definitely going to help you. If you're friendly and fun, that will get you very far. Not in the tip top houses, but the middle tier will definitely give you a good chance. Introverts are doomed.
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by: p n m
Social and fun meaning going out not getting sloppy and talking to girls at the bars?
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by: Umm
Which sororities are reaching out to you if you don't know a soul in them? Just curious?
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#7by: @op
Thank you for an honest post. Most of us felt the same as you, anxious and nervous about rush. Honestly though, any school with a strong greek system such as Ole Miss will require connections from both in state and oos girls. I believe that all sororities have something to offer. To get the most out of your sorority experience it really matters less about the tiers but more about your involvement. To all pnms....good luck, relax and enjoy the once in a lifetime experience.
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by: No way!
by: Well
I kind of new a kappa but not well and I never stayed with her. I also did not go kappa. But if you wanna call bs then go for it. I'm just trying to tell them it happens no need to be negative.
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by: Yeah
I can honestly say you are NOT a member of my top tier sorority! ONLY girls with connections got in. And 95% of those were chapter alumni list girls.
We cried every day to see our friends dropped. Without alumni connections, it's impossible. The remaining 5% were huge actives favorites!
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by: Northern pnm
What if you're super social and great at meeting people? Is it too late to make connections like the first weeks of school? And you would be considered "pretty" to most people and have a stacked resume? Can those things alter your rush?
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