rushing numbers?
by: QuestionWhat is wrong with our greek system that we can have more chapters than a school like Mizzou, have them rush more girls than we do and yet more of their girls get into houses than ours. Shouldn't we be initiating more members than them yearly just based on the numbers?
#2by: Yo
#3by: Some Advice
Moms need to get off this page. Greekrank is for college students. Let your daughters fight their own battles. IU's Greek system is unique. It is certainly not the fairest or most inclusive, but neither is life in general. My best friend goes to Wisconsin where the Greek system is far less competitive, but still is selective. After rush this year, she said that a ton of moms flooded their greekrank page with posts about how Wisco's rush is unfair and that everyone should get a bid and deserves to be part of Greek life. Just no. It's like the parents who thinks that every kid on the rec department soccer team should get a trophy for just participating. Life isn't fair, and sometimes achievement is arbitrary. Get over it. My rush at Indiana didn't end up like I thought it would, but I didn't let the houses that "rejected" me determine my self-worth. My room mate at the time didn't get a bid at all, and guess what? She survived, and is still an awesome person and has found other ways to have a fulfilling experience at IU. She said that she just looked at rush like one long job interview, and she for whatever reason just didn't get the job---a much more mature and REALISTIC outlook than demanding that a process that's worked for the organizations involved and been in place for decades must completely change because of her disappointment in its outcome.
#6by: NPC
I just finished rush at IU for the spring of 2014 and didnt get a bid. Yes the system may be screwed up (especially this year, with all the weather issues) but I don't blame anyone but myself for not ending up where I wanted to be. It sucks that not even half the girls that rush get in, but that's just how it is. Most of the houses have a live-in policy which constricts space, and since greek life is such a huge part of IU, a lot of girls go through recruitment. Even though I was disappointed in the end, I the experience I got from rushing was unique, and beneficial in learning more about myself. If there should be ANYONE hating on the IU greek system right now, it should be me, but I am not because I am mature and take heartbreak with grace. Now can everyone shut up and stop fighting over the internet?
#7by: NPC
I just finished rush at IU for the spring of 2014 and didnt get a bid. Yes the system may be screwed up (especially this year, with all the weather issues) but I don't blame anyone but myself for not ending up where I wanted to be. It sucks that not even half the girls that rush get in, but that's just how it is. Most of the houses have a live-in policy which constricts space, and since greek life is such a huge part of IU, a lot of girls go through recruitment. Even though I was disappointed in the end, I the experience I got from rushing was unique, and beneficial in learning more about myself. If there should be ANYONE hating on the IU greek system right now, it should be me, but I am not because I am mature and take heartbreak with grace. Now can everyone shut up and stop fighting over the internet?
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