how can you tell if a house liked you at 16?

^^^coming from another pnm someone answer this please

My best advice to give is this:
1) think about the conversations u had - did they stand out and make u like that girl(s) and can u envision going out w her etc?
2) think about the way the girls chanted/danced/talked before during and after the video - did you like their vibe? Did you notice anything that stood out to you?
3) don’t let the set up of the round (chairs etc) get in the way of your experience - after all, it’s all about the girls and not the way their physical house allows them to arrange the tables chairs etc
4) think about the last few houses you went to that day - did they put in as much effort as they did the first round!? Bc that goes to show how much they care (i literally have no voice bc i was going so hard every round and didn’t sit out bc still wanted to find the right girlies for my chapter)

They invite you back to the next round.

The reality of it is the house could really like someone and still cut them. There just isn't enough room on the list for every girl a house likes. Every round there are girls we would like to see move to the next round that we have to let go and its nothing they did wrong, there is just a limited number of spots and there were some that we liked just a little bit more.

You can't dwell on what you lost, you have to focus on what you get back and evaluate can you see yourself there.