can any girls in houses...

No ones ever gonna answer anything seriously or honestly on here girl, this sites just for tearing other houses down.
Your best bet is waiting until November and talking to your Rho Gam about stuff like that. She’ll have all the answers for you. It’s not as scary as it seems, honest.

honestly i rushed as a sophomore and am now in a house. Going in knowing the stereotypes I knew for a fact i did not want a top house, as those just aren't my style. It is normal to not have full number of chapters back during round callbacks. Basically the 16 to 9 was many girl's hardest cut, and yes there will be crying. But just be yourself, and remember a house doesn't define who you are. Every single house has multiple unique positive aspects.