rushing as a sophomore-how to befriend sorority wo
by: SophI will rush next year. I'm wondering how I can befriend sorority women to help my chances and get a better feel for houses. What clubs do sorority women tend to be involved with? Should I go to frat parties and bars? How can I network?
#1by: Girl
You'd befriend them like you would any normal person. If it doesn't happen naturally, then maybe it wasn't mean to be. We are not zoo animals or a different species. We're normal human beings. How have you befriended your other friends?
As far as activities...we are all involved in different things. I guess the one thing we universally have in common is our sorority but you're not a member so we're not going to connect on that level.
You're not going to network at frat parties and bars...we go there to go out with our sisters and friends. I'd suggest trying to make friends the way you would any other normal person and maybe it'd be best to socialize in classes or clubs/activities. I really don't see socializing at parties as something that will get you a friendship/rush connection.
Commentby: ^
Your friendships need to grow organically and be natural. We can smell someone who's using us just as an in from a mile away. Get involved with groups and interests you're passionate about and make friends there you have common interests with. Also keep in touch with current friends and those you met during recruitment who received bids and let them know you're still interested. Don't go to frat parties and bars, especially if you get sloppy or hook up randomly. You don't want to get a rep as that girl because no amount of friends in a house can help you with that.
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by: Smh
Soph - Most sorority girls aren't zoo animals, except for @Girl. You asked a very reasonable question. She was clearly showing her "elite" (ha) status by belittling your question. Best thing for you to do is keep clear of her :) But that does not represent everyone, not even close. She's right about one thing, that friendships will happen naturally in classes or in any outside activities. As you become more involved, you'll meet more girls and the opportunity to form friendships with them. Good luck next year!
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