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by: starI think some girls do get coaches. There was an article in the New York Times in 2012 titled "Pledge Prep, Prepping Students for Sorority Rush". UVA was highlighted. I think the girls who do have coaches don't talk ever about it. I hate to say it but your friends are also your competition. There are only so many spots in each sorority and everyone wants to get in a good one. It's a weird, stressful time. Not so much if you're content if you're above playing the status game. Good luck!
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Girls shouldn't be allowed to get rush coaches. It completely takes away the virtue of "being yourself" and competing on that basis. If you get into a sorority for who you faked being rather than who you are, you shouldn't be in that sorority and will soon find out you are not that similar to your "sisters."
ISC should ban anyone who uses a coach.
by: Mimi
I mean this with the best of intentions, but I think we set ourselves up for a difficult and unhappy rush and result if we view recruitment as a competition. I know it can feel like that, but it might help to try to focus on finding a place where you feel most at home and most welcome. I totally agree with you that the goal should be to find a sorority with likeminded or uplifting members. Best wishes!
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The message of this post is wrong. It tries to make the girls in those sororities feel as if they are less than. Again if anyone pays attention to crap on here you are crazy.
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Super, would you mind sharing approximately how much it cost for your rush outfits and accessories from RTR? It seems like a great idea! Hope you get into the house of your dreams :D
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by: Cha Cha
I know you are nervous about everything right now that you can't control and it seems like rush is super high stakes, but your rush and its outcome will be MUCH HAPPIER if you go into it with an open mind for all houses, just like you want the sororities to have an open mind with PNMs. I'd wear my own coat if I were you. If you want to wear the other coat, that's great too. If anybody looks down on you for a damn coat then they suck. Focus on what you think of the women you meet rather than being judged. It will go much better that way. Please try not to worry about some of the crap you will hear on this site. Most sorority women are not as small-minded as this site makes out.
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I had two coaches, my mom and my grandma
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