Dropped by top incl legacy. Do I continue?

Don’t be discouraged. It’s really a just a numbers game in the end. Every house can’t take everybody. It’s most likely nothing personal. I say go to pref and see. What is it going to cost you?

many chapters here at clemson don't necessarily focus on legacy anymore, except for maybe the first round. I wouldn't take it too personally, some girls might have just had better conversations with other girls that were less interview-like. Also, the video round is a big factor as nobody can really tell who you are based on a 1 minute video, and it can be unfair to everyone sometimes. But all chapters here are very similar and all have amazing groups of girls who supported not just there own but all other philanthropies. And just because u got dropped doesnt mean you cant make friends with girls in that sorority. Dont think about it too deep, u will be happy wherever u end up:)

I was dropped along the way be everyone I was interested in and really didn't like my final two choices. The whole process sucks. I went forward with bid day. I just never really clicked with the other girls and found everything super annoying. I ended up dropping out.

This same thing happened to me freshman year and then I dropped after pref and rushed again as a sophomore and ended up making some of my best friends in the sorority I ended up in. I also know a lot of girls who dropped and planned on rushing again but didn’t because they made so many friends freshman year they didn’t feel like they needed/wanted to rush again. It seems like the end of the world in the moment but I promise it gets better and some of my best friends are other girls who I met freshman year because none of us were in sororities and now I have them AND my friends in the sorority and it worked out better than I could have planned