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Honestly

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As shallow as recruitment can be at times, if the girls rushing you love your personality enough they'll rank you high. A lot of girls talk to pnm with a bias on their heads, but some don't. So theoretically ( depending how that chapter operates, sorry can't share too much) if girls you talk to see your shine all week and give you high rank you'll see might have them on preference and if you're lucky bid day! Also having you being pretty in the face helps. Chi Omega is the top house that typically doesn't focus that much on appearance. Honestly though don't worry. I cannot even guarantee that you yourself will like a top house, you might wanna a Kappa, Theta or KD instead who knows? If a sorority casts you out for your weight do you really wanna be their sister any way? Go with an open mind. Often times girls focus too much on being what the top houses want and not looking for what they need in a sisterhood. Open house round of rush last year I was obsessing over the right things to say at the top houses. Once I had the conversations that I did I realized I didn't even like all of the "top house" and the next rounds of rush I payed attention to what I wanted in the girls and the sisterhood, and found my home away from home bid day. It sounds to me like you were friends with the popular group who all ended up in top houses at Mizzou. Whether or not you end up being sisters with those girls doesn't make you more or less of a person. Do recruitment for yourself and not an image